Windows Server traffic monitor that show traffic for each connected IP

I would like to see traffic in bytes of individual users (IP's) in real time. Logging would be good too.

Additionally I would like to see which process (CGI.exe, php script etc) they are connected to or minimally what the GET/POST request was.

I have looked at many server monitoring tools but have not found something like this. Any suggestions would be appreciated.

From serverfault Mike Trader

• netstat -ab for connection points.

  logparser to find users traffic.
  http://serverfault.com/questions/45516/recommended-logparser-queries-for-iis-monitoring

  Mike Trader : Thank you for that. I was hoping for something in real time with a nice UI
  From tony roth